The time when you need a family lawyer is likely to be one of the hardest times in your life. Whether you are going through a divorce, trying to escape domestic abuse, or fighting for the right to see your children, or protecting your children from an abusive partner the outcome of any court cases will change your life.
However, your family lawyer is not just there to fight your battles in the courtroom. Your lawyer will also be a support for you throughout the whole process and be providing you with vital information.
That is why it is crucial that you choose the right lawyer. Choosing the wrong lawyer can not only damage your case, but also your emotional well-being as cases become drawn out and fraught with unnecessary tension.
Unlike on TV it is not necessary for lawyers to be aggressive in order to win a case. In fact, judges often take a dim view on bullying tactics and immoral actions which can end up damaging your case.
When you are choosing a family lawyer it is important to focus on qualifications as well as experience. Someone who is specialised in family law and who can demonstrate a wide range of successful cases will be able to help you to win your case. When choosing a family lawyer find out if they have worked on a case similar to yours and what the outcome was.
It is also important that you get on with your family lawyer. They should listen to your situation with an empathetic ear and you should not feel bullied into pursuing something that you do not want.
Your family lawyer must also be able to explain everything to you in a way that you understand. This will greatly reduce your stress levels through the court proceedings. Feeling out your depth and out of control will cause you a lot of stress, but if you have a grasp in what is happening you will feel more prepared and more relaxed.
It is the lawyer’s job to master all the legal terminology and to fight your corner in full accordance with the traditions and expectations of the court room. It is not your job to do this.
Ask around for recommendations from friends and families and read testimonials from lawyers in your area to find someone who is competent, personable and professional. It may be the most important decision that you make.